The Wounded by Love Agreement
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Minggu, 22 November 2009
Jumat, 06 November 2009
Yah.. makin hati2lah sama status FB anda.. hehehe.. Evan oh Evan..
Ketika arogansi salah alamat..
Semoga hanya ada 1 orang yg seperti ini..
Awalnya bingung banyak banget org2 yang ngomong2 tentang Evan.. gua sangka ngomongin Evan temen gua.. ternyata maksudnya Evan Brimob.. yah, telat banget ya gua.. maklum ga baca berita & ga nonton TV..
Berikut gambar2 yang gua dapet mengenai kejadian status FB Evan Brimob..
Semoga hanya ada 1 orang yg seperti ini..
Awalnya bingung banyak banget org2 yang ngomong2 tentang Evan.. gua sangka ngomongin Evan temen gua.. ternyata maksudnya Evan Brimob.. yah, telat banget ya gua.. maklum ga baca berita & ga nonton TV..
Berikut gambar2 yang gua dapet mengenai kejadian status FB Evan Brimob..
Hehehe..
Dan ketika melanjutkan browsing ternyata ada pernyataan permintaan maaf dari sang Brimob muda yg arogan ini..
Permintaan maaf itu ditulis Evan Brimob dalam status terbarunya, Kamis (5/11/2009). --DetikNews..
"Saya mengaku salah dan minta maaf dan ralat pernyataan saya menjadi: Polri butuh masyarakat... masyarakat butuh Polri.... maju terus kepolisian Indonesia, bangkit Indonesiaku, lawan para koruptor dan perusak negeri ini" .
Hmm..
Kayanya minta maafnya percuma deh..
Apalagih pas gua dah baca bagaimana dia nanggepin komentar orang2 tentang statusnya..
Dan lucunya ada juga org yg mendukung dia..
Yah, ini hanya sebuah note iseng aja sih..
sekaligus reminder untuk berhati2 dengan status FB anda.. :)
Kamis, 05 November 2009
Certain moments repeat themselves..
This page was taken from Warrior of The Light by Paulo Coelho..
A Warrior of the Light knows that certain moments repeat themselves.
He often finds himself faced by the same problems and situations, and seeing difficult situations return, he grows depressed, thinking that he is incapable of making any progress in life.
"I've been through all this before," he says to his heart.
"Yes, you have been through all this before," replies his heart. "But you have never been beyond it."
Then the Warrior of the Light realizes that these repeated experiences have but one aim: to teach him what he does not want to learn.
Kisah Pelayanan di Sebuah Tempat Makan..
Sejenak sempat berpikir.. atas perlakuan seorang karyawan di sebuah resto..
dengan muka cemberut ngadepin pembeli..
dengan nada arogan mendatangi meja pembeli dan menyalahkan si pembeli..
dengan terburu2 dan hanya mengangguk tanpa senyum lalu membanting buku menu ke meja kasir.. sampai mbak2 yg pesen jadi bengong terkagum2.. hmm..
dan ketika ditanyakan kepada sang kasir.. yang rupanya masih karyawan training (baru 2 minggu kerja), rupanya si pelaku tadi adalah salah satu karyawan senior..
Hmm..
Sejenak jadi flashback ketika masih kerja..
bagaimana ketika gua, dengan jabatan yg seharusnya ga menghadapi klien, ternyata harus menghadapi klien yg marah2.. atau klien yang sedang senang.. atau sedang bingung.. atau buru2..
dan...
bagaimana rekan kerja gua menghadapi klien2nya dengan berbagai mood.. dengan sinis atau dengan tetap tersenyum..
dan..
bagaimana rekan kerja gua yg menyuruh tamu untuk menunggu sampai jam makan siang selesai.. atau dengan rekan kerja yang menerima tamu walaupun sedang makan siang..
dan..
masih banyak lagi..
Lalu gua bandingkan dengan kejadian pelayanan yang baru saja gua lihat dan terima..
Satu hal yang gua sadar.. kadang kita tidak mau diperlakukan seperti itu.. tapi kita memperlakukan orang lain seperti itu..
Seperti misalnya harus menunggu.. betapa kesalnya gua ketika harus menunggu selama 1,5 jam di sebuah klinik kesehatan karena bagian administrasinya sedang istirahat.. hmm..
Dan bagaimana sebalnya gua malam ini ngeliat tingkah karyawan arogan tadi yg datang sambil bawa bon dan menyalahkan kami karena pesanan belum datang.. hmm..
Mungkin sebaiknya yg gua lakukan adalah bercermin.. pada tingkah laku orang lain..
The Four Forces by Paulo Coelho..
This page was taken from http://paulocoelhoblog.com
The Four Forces
Published on July 22, 2009 in Warrior Of Light.
Father Alan Jones says that building our soul requires Four Invisible Forces, namely love, death, power and time. It is necessary to love because we are loved by God. It is necessary to be conscious of death in order to understand life better. One has to fight in order to grow – but without falling into the trap of the power that we obtain in doing so, because we know that such power is worth nothing. And lastly, it is necessary to accept that our soul – although eternal – is at this moment caught in the web of time, with all its opportunities and limitations.
First Force: Love
Rabbi Iaakov’s wife was always looking for an excuse to argue with her husband. Iaakov never answered her provocations.
Until one night when, during a dinner with some friends, the rabbi had a ferocious argument with his wife to the surprise of all at table.
“What happened?” they asked. “Why did you break your habit of never answering?”
“Because I realized that what bothered my wife most was the fact that I remained silent. Acting in this way, I remained far from her emotions. My reaction was an act of love, and I managed to make her understand that I heard her words.”
Second Force: Death
As soon as he died, Juan found himself in a very beautiful place, surrounded by all the comfort and beauty that he had dreamed of.
A figure dressed in white came up to him and said, “You are entitled to anything you want.”
Enchanted, Juan did everything he had dreamed of during life. After many years of pleasure, he sought out the figure in white. He said that he had experienced everything and that now he needed a little work to make him feel useful.
“That’s the only thing I cannot get for you,” said the figure in white.
“But I’ll spend eternity dying of boredom! I’d much rather be in hell!”
“And where do you think you are?”
Third Force: Power
“I’ve spent a good part of the day thinking about things that I should not think about, desiring things that I should not desire, planning to do things that I should not do.”
The master pointed to a plant and asked the disciple if he knew what it was.
“It’s a belladonna. It can kill you if you eat the leaves. But it can’t kill you just by looking at it. Likewise, negative desires can cause no harm – if you don’t let yourself be seduced by them.”
Fourth Force: Time
A carpenter and his apprentices were traveling through the province of Qi in search of building materials. They saw a giant tree; five men holding hands could not encompass its girth, and its crown reached almost to the clouds.
“Let’s not waste our time with this tree,” said the master carpenter. “It would take us forever to cut it down. If we wanted to make a ship out of that heavy trunk, the ship would sink. If we tried to use it to build a roof, the walls would have to be specially reinforced.”
The group continued on its way. One of the apprentices remarked, “Such a big tree and no use to anyone!”
“That’s where you’re wrong,” said the master carpenter. “The tree was true to its own destiny. If it had been like all the others, we would have cut it down. But because it had the courage to be different, it will remain alive and strong for a long time.”
The Four Forces
Published on July 22, 2009 in Warrior Of Light.
Father Alan Jones says that building our soul requires Four Invisible Forces, namely love, death, power and time. It is necessary to love because we are loved by God. It is necessary to be conscious of death in order to understand life better. One has to fight in order to grow – but without falling into the trap of the power that we obtain in doing so, because we know that such power is worth nothing. And lastly, it is necessary to accept that our soul – although eternal – is at this moment caught in the web of time, with all its opportunities and limitations.
First Force: Love
Rabbi Iaakov’s wife was always looking for an excuse to argue with her husband. Iaakov never answered her provocations.
Until one night when, during a dinner with some friends, the rabbi had a ferocious argument with his wife to the surprise of all at table.
“What happened?” they asked. “Why did you break your habit of never answering?”
“Because I realized that what bothered my wife most was the fact that I remained silent. Acting in this way, I remained far from her emotions. My reaction was an act of love, and I managed to make her understand that I heard her words.”
Second Force: Death
As soon as he died, Juan found himself in a very beautiful place, surrounded by all the comfort and beauty that he had dreamed of.
A figure dressed in white came up to him and said, “You are entitled to anything you want.”
Enchanted, Juan did everything he had dreamed of during life. After many years of pleasure, he sought out the figure in white. He said that he had experienced everything and that now he needed a little work to make him feel useful.
“That’s the only thing I cannot get for you,” said the figure in white.
“But I’ll spend eternity dying of boredom! I’d much rather be in hell!”
“And where do you think you are?”
Third Force: Power
“I’ve spent a good part of the day thinking about things that I should not think about, desiring things that I should not desire, planning to do things that I should not do.”
The master pointed to a plant and asked the disciple if he knew what it was.
“It’s a belladonna. It can kill you if you eat the leaves. But it can’t kill you just by looking at it. Likewise, negative desires can cause no harm – if you don’t let yourself be seduced by them.”
Fourth Force: Time
A carpenter and his apprentices were traveling through the province of Qi in search of building materials. They saw a giant tree; five men holding hands could not encompass its girth, and its crown reached almost to the clouds.
“Let’s not waste our time with this tree,” said the master carpenter. “It would take us forever to cut it down. If we wanted to make a ship out of that heavy trunk, the ship would sink. If we tried to use it to build a roof, the walls would have to be specially reinforced.”
The group continued on its way. One of the apprentices remarked, “Such a big tree and no use to anyone!”
“That’s where you’re wrong,” said the master carpenter. “The tree was true to its own destiny. If it had been like all the others, we would have cut it down. But because it had the courage to be different, it will remain alive and strong for a long time.”
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